Hairstyles for Men & Women

Sorry, I don't know how to change the question I did before but it's still missing a link to the picture of the kind of hair I'd like to wear. I have a kind of a big and nose and also a big forehead. I'd like to wear my hair in another way but I just can't figure out, I've thought about something like Damon Albarn's hair but I think my hair is just to curly or something like this. Which kind of products should I use to get my hair like this? http://yfrog.com/5dmusicbywakeupnakedj This second link is me and one of the ways I wish I could wear my hair http://img682.imageshack.us/img682/9107/sdasd.png Is there any chance I can get a hairstyle with all that style? Or any other one which fits my face? :X Heeelp~